Good question, isn't it?
But the latter is quite heavy with meaning in our collective and individual consciousness.
If we don't please others, we will act differently than if we please ourselves.
But then, how do we adjust this feeling into something that speaks to us?
Well, by asking ourselves the right questions. But how do we ask them?
First, you need to see if you are aligned with yourself. If you are making the necessary efforts to change the things you don't like about yourself and that are holding you back.
For example, if I'm not attracting the women I want, what can I do to change that?
It's all about vibrations. If you don't feel good enough physically or sartorially, you're going to vibrate lower than the people you find untouchable, who vibrate much higher.
And so, you will make mistakes that will work against you later, such as the way you communicate or what you give off in the presence of these people.
We call this intentional sabotage coupled with limiting beliefs. We all have these beliefs that make life difficult for us and hold us back by sabotaging us in many different ways.
And unfortunately, that's all there is to it... To change things within ourselves, we need to be able to shift our paradigm and change our thought patterns. We need to be able to take the problem by the horns and dig into what's wrong. But again, it's hard to accept the fact that we have a problem with ourselves and that we need to fix it.
We often tend to shy away from the problems that plague our lives and that we want to ignore. But the power lies in the ability to take the problem into consideration and solve it.
It's been said that 90% of our attitude, actions, and even our way of thinking come from within us. We often blame others or the situation, when the problem lies within us. The remaining 10% cannot influence the problems in our lives.
But that's not true! You might say. Well, I'm going to ask you a simple question. When you've experienced a disturbing or unpleasant moment, do you ever think to yourself, "If I had done something differently, the result might have been different?"
This is already a first step in the thought process. We can modify our results based on our questions and our actions.
Next comes the analysis of the problem that arises and how to solve it.
To do this, you need to start by making a list of what you think is a problem or where you are not aligned depending on the situation.
